Sharing Unconditional Love Transforms Negative Stress Factors into a Radiant Life

Sharing Unconditional Love Transforms Negative Stress Factors into a Radiant Life

By Frances Gonzalez-Boyd

 

 

 

The dream of someday meeting the love of their life and living happily ever after is what some of the single population longs for. There are many sweethearts that are anxious for Valentine’s Day to arrive so they could buy their better half chocolates and flowers. It is a day when couples can say to each other, “I love you” by celebrating February 14th and making extra time for one another. It is true that couples can find and make each other happy. There is something else for those single people to think about, before they set out to find the love of their life. While many sweethearts are receiving Valentines on the special day, some couples might be expecting too much of the happiness from each other that come from material gifts. Still others, according to author Marci Shimoff, of the book, Love for No Reason, are in so many words, looking for love in all the wrong places. She offers a better solution to those lonely people out there who might be trying to fill a void the unhealthy way. {{more}}Instead of totally depending on people to make us happy, her secret to living a happy life is by learning to love oneself first through the compassion and unconditional love we spread to other people. There are a number of reasons why individuals should make a life shift for the positive, and one’s health is a good reason. In this world of toxic addictions that are an easy access and an escape for many people that are lonely and insecure. The fact exists that with those bad choices one can limit their “internal love reserve”, and also shorten their life span. Shimoff is a transformational expert that offers a breakthrough approach to experiencing a deep and lasting state of unconditional love. In her book, Love for No Reason, Shimoff shares that just by helping someone who can also be a stranger, and using compassion and unconditional love is a step towards learning to love one-self who creating an atmosphere of love all around. You are happy, not because people fill your needs, that you love them, or because their opinions match you own, but because you are connected to a state of pure love within yourself. The author’s transformational definition of unconditional love is one, not of a state of being, not of a Hallmark card—kind of love, but the kind of love that is limitless, and does not ask to be returned.What Shimoff discusses overall in her book is, the inner state of love; the love that does not depend on anything outside of us or another person, situation, or romantic partner, which she calls, love for no reason. She teach how to access that state of love more and more of the time, no matter who else is going on around you. Her book does not teach one how to love more in relationships, and how to get more love, but shows how love unconditionally, and it contains the secret to fully loving anyone, including oneself.Stopping to calm the noise in one’s busy life can be difficult. Learning how to love can even be difficult when there is a lot of stress, anxiety, and many negative factors that have led to the hardening of the heart. Many individuals do not know where to start when it comes to loving others. Some of them have been hurt so much and need healing, and all they know how to do is put up walls, and carry grudges even against the wrong people because of their past. Learning how to love others unconditionally can be a start for many individuals who are still undecided about their New Year’s Resolutions. It can also be a beginning to a new life with healing and a positive transformation.